In
2001, I was reading a book titled Prenatal
Parenting. The author was Dr. Fred
Wirth, a staff neonatologist at Reading Hospital and Medical Center in Reading,
Pennsylvania.
Wirth
brought to light communication with the unborn child and called the womb the “intrauterine
temple of learning”. He believed in the
empowerment of women and that they should take charge of their health care, not
only as a means to a more satisfying birth experience, but as an optimal
pregnancy and birth outcome catalyst.
“Faith and prayer
are pivotal to my belief that you can increase the safety of your pregnancy by
taking more responsibility for its outcome.
Thinking you are incapable of handling such responsibility will only
work against you. You must have faith in
your ability to do this.”
And
why not? Women are creating a wonderful environment both physically and
emotionally for this baby. The “faith”
and “prayer” do not have to be religious.
But faith and prayer in a higher power or meditation and relaxation can
help alleviate fear – and fear begets tension and tension begets stress
hormones, which can have multiple negative effects on the growing baby and the
pregnancy.
Fear
is a huge topic today – with media input such as television views of childbirth
and certain books and embellished stories from friends! Fear of childbirth or tocophobia may include
nightmares, panic attacks and psychosomatic symptoms. The fear may be rooted in the
misunderstanding of the pain in childbirth or apprehension in being at the
hospital during the birth. In our
society hospitals are the place of illness and death – not the ideal location
for pregnancy which is mostly a situation of health and wellness. Again with the media, we have created a culture
of avoiding pain: this medication for a headache, this medication for
arthritis, this medication for menstrual cramps – we don’t have time for the
pain. And why should we – just take
medication.
Therefore
protecting the fetal biome is more than eating the right foods or consuming
enough liquid to avoid dehydration. It
is a psychosocial journey of learning about the roots of fear, education on
methods of comfort measures for the tension, as well as understanding the
mechanism of pain and how to use the pain to the advantage of both the mother
and baby.
When
the above skill set is in process of being mastered, a powerful emotional bond
begins to take place between the mother and child. As childbirth educators and doulas, we can
help mothers establish this reverence for the fetal biome and facilitate
prenatal bonding. What we teach our
expectant clients has an impact on their relationship with their baby and may
greatly influence the pregnancy. Focus
education not only on the expectant mother or the growing baby but the two as a
dynamic dyad where love flows back and forth.
Want
to read Dr. Wirth’s book Prenatal Parenting?
There are copies available on Amazon: click here. And as former US Surgeon General C. Everett
Koop said, “Read this book! You will
learn how to improve your birthing experience, as well as the health and
happiness of your unborn child.”
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